Stalking the Stacks with Library Lil * |
2008-12-02 So.Yes, when I last wrote I was having all this Christmas stress. But my brother set up a conference call and whammo, we got it solved. I stuck to my guns and said we weren't driving all the way to my mom's. I said we'd be willing to go as far as my brother's house. I said we wanted to be home Christmas Morning, but everything else was up in the air and they could decide. I don't think everyone is happy and my brother wanted to lead off by talking about future Christmases, but all in all I think it is solved. At least for 2008. 2009 is going to be an even bigger bitch, but we may invite everyone up here. And even though I didn't respond the the e-mails I got, it wasn't because I didn't think any of the advice was useful--it was, its because I got busy and didn't get to it. I had a scratchy throat the day before the conference call, which became a full blown cold by Wednesday, when I had my cavity filled. Also, I am still sick a week later. I'm just so sick of being sick. But I am hoping that now that I have no more Christmas stress, I shall get better. Yep, that's right no more (well a little) but here's why most of the stress is gone: Husband is a hard guy to shop for, in part because, I get a small budget: $50. Also in part because everything he "really wants" is out of that budget or he gets it from other people. So, he needs a new desk chair, but that will cost at least $100. He also seems to think he needs a new stereo receiver, because ours occasionally cuts out in the middle of a CD. But that will also run me $100. He does have an Amazon list, but nothing screams personal gift like buying stuff from his wishlist. I should know him well enough to pick something nice out for him that he would really like but is afraid to ask for. He doesn't wear ties, or dress shirts, doesn't shave, doesn't golf or have any hobbies like that. He does read (bad science fiction stories) but all those are on his Amazon list. He does still have some "high" priority things (my mother asked him to prioritize) left on his list, though.... hmmm. I do like to get him meaningful presents, though things I know he'll use and like. He never drops hints though. I'll get it figured out, I always do. One year I bought him luggage and he didn't take it as a sign that I wanted him to move out so I guess we know each other pretty well even if we aren't original. So.. other things going on in my life. I was planning a post on how the new Year's resolutions are shaping up. But every time I pat myself on the back for how we've managed the finances we end up having to buy stuff. Stuff like cavities and printers, and sewer line snakings and dishwasher repairs. And finances, well... that might be the only resolution I could possibly make at this point. Although not if I keep having to spend an extra $200 every week. other news: Amy lost a tooth, making 4 for her and 5 for Emily. Emily has a loose one, so 2008 might just be a 10 tooth year. Ten TEETH! |
